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Anger Is A Communication

Anger Is A Communication

A Lady visited us accompanied by her daughter. The young woman was introduced as Shubhashree, about 28 years old. She was sporting a deep-colored vermilion on her forehead and kept her long hair neatly braided. She wore a bright-colored saree and played with the mangal sutra on her neck; she looked at us quizzically.

Shubhashree was married for two years without any child or pregnancy. However, she said she does not want to return to her husband’s home and carry on this marriage. On being asked why, there was a defensive silence.

After being prodded, she replied that her abusive Mother in law was torturing her. Her sister-in-law also contributes to the situation by using filthy cuss words. Her husband is a silent spectator and won’t say anything to his Mother or sister in her defense.

She was afraid of speaking out anything to anyone about her deplorable state.

She would not even elaborately tell anything about her husband but expect him to react accordingly.

Shubhashree was advised by the consultants to take her husband into confidence and let him know what happens in the house in his absence with her.

She was assured that nothing untoward would happen to her, even if she took the situation head-on with her husband.

Convinced, Shubhashree called her husband over the phone. A heated discussion ensued in which she broke into anger the moment her husband, Tandesh War Nath, tried to soothe her with defensive answers.

She informed him that it would not be possible to live with him if his Mother continuously blamed him for anything missing in the house. She was fed up with her Mother in laws Paranoi trying to frame her as a thief. She said that her limits of tolerance had been crossed.

After hearing Shubhashree, her husband apologized and promised to correct the situation.

Anger and fights are also essential tools of communication in marriage. However, it is a misconception that couples who fight often are incompatible with marriage. Contrary to this belief, wherein the communication breaks down and couples stop talking to each other for months, it leads to the dissolution of the marriage eventually.

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